They have refused to arrest him because he is a police officer-Janet Mbeca | Tuko TV

They have refused to arrest him because he is a police officer-Janet Mbeca | Tuko TV

they used to tell me that I am destroying my own house I asked them if they preferred me to go back and get killed I wondered what was special about him that he could not be arrested I want him arrested and arraigned in court My name is Janet Ngesa a mother to Imani and Tiffany My first born lives with my mother and I am here with the young one I met Robert Muthama in 2016 and we got married in 2017 I got pregnant in August but things were not good in our marriage What was the problem? He used to quarrel me every other time he gave me some money to go for shopping then came back at night while drunk, woke me up to ask me how I spent the money He became so inquisitive and wanted me to give him the receipt On asking him why he was behaving that way he descended on me with blows I was pregnant at that time so he sat on my stomach and said that child must come out I begun shouting for help he literally sat on your stomach? yes, he said he wanted the baby to come out I was saved by neighbours and I rushed straight to where he works that night where I was directed to spend a night at a certain ladys’ house In the morning I went to report him to his mother in Tala but she said there’s nothing she could do I called my mother, she told me to leave immediately and go back home his mother gave me fare and I travelled home in Masinga after some time he called, apologized and promised to change and so I went back everything was okay until this 18th of this month I went to show a friend of mine called Suzy some clothes I had bought from Gikomba We had prepared rice and beans for lunch he only left me with KSh 50 on that day so there was some little rice and beans that remained he came back at night while drunk tried to wake me up but I did not hear him he slapped me and in the process of waking up I shouted my friends name Suzy he asked why I refereed to him with another persons name the he turned even more violent he kicked my lips with his boots and my face was swollen he strangled me and said that he was going to kill me I was saved by neighbours where was the baby? the baby had woken up so I took her and we left I went to report to Industrial Police Station I then went to where he works and asked them to help me get to the hospital because I was bleeding he was called to come give me money to go to the hospital he was still angry and wanted to beat me up again he said I should spend the night at the station then the police will arrest him in the morning I refused and another officer warned him against touching me so he left and I took my baby with me where we spend the night at another ladys house In the morning I went back to his work place when his bossed saw me they advised me to fill a P3 form then report him one of the police officers helped me fill the form I went to Nairobi Women hospital where I received treatment and I came back with the medical report I went to meet another doctor again the following day and after I was given the report I handed it to his bosses I was informed since he was a police officer the prisons boss must be notified before he is arrested I wasn’t too happy with the way they handled me so I went to report to IPOA You felt like they did not take the issue seriously? yes. I gave IPOA officers the contacts of the officer who was handling me and they called her why did you go to IPOA? to report him I gave them the details of the police station I had reported and when the officer was called she was asked to help me on coming back she asked why I went to report her to IPOA I told her I only went to report my husband they threw all the documents I had given them to me and said I should go seek help from IPOA So another police officer joined her and they ganged up against me, she said my face looked bad no one would want to marry me another one said I deserved to be beaten they were telling you all these things openly? Yes, I apologized to them then I went back home I returned the following day to record a statement I asked them why they had not arrested this guy after what he did to me they said arresting a police officer was not easy why? I don’t know I told them I wanted to go back to the house to collect my clothes I was escorted by the police in the welfare department so the lady who was handling the case asked me to inform her after I was done I called her on phone and told her I wanted that matter to be taken to court she told me off and said I shouldn’t teach her how to do her job instead I should wait for a phone call from the OCS then she hung up what is her name? I only know her as Millicent where is she based at? Industrial Area do you think he has not been arrested because he is a police officer Yes there’s an officer who informed me that he still goes to work what were your expectations when you went to report him to the police? I wanted help but it seems they wanted the matter to end there because they abused me and accused me of destroying my house I asked them if they wanted me to go back and be killed and those were women who were supposed to help you they shocked me I was asking myself what is the role of the police if not to serve everyone equally I wondered what was special about him that he could not be arrested I want him arrested then we sort the matter in court he said he is not afraid of being arrested or even being taken to court my baby was even sacred of seeing my swollen face after I was beaten she would cry and rush to another lady who would stay with her She was scared when I went to collect clothes, she said we should leave before daddy comes to punch my face again has he spoken to you? he sent someone to come tell me that if I happen to take him to court I should forget about our marriage and that he will not support the baby he threatened me again saying that he has been summoned so I should plan on how to raise the baby I did not respond to him what do you think about this matter? he has really hurt me this is not my normal face It was even difficult for me to take tea because he badly injured my lower lip why did you keep going back to him? I persevered because the children are young, I don’t have a job and I did not want to burden my mother did you know he was an alcoholic when you met? yes, but I never thought he was violent why did you decide to stay the first day he laid his hand on you? at first you can’t really tell you thought he would change? yes how does he manage to convince you to go back after battering you? he says he’s changed and promises never to repeat the mistake Supposing he is watching, what message do you have for him? Nothing are you afraid of him? I would say if his agenda was to destroy my face and make me look ugly then it’s okay what is it you want about your life? I just need a place to stay about a job, I have knowledge in beauty and can work in an mpesa shop do you have a course in cosmetics? I have worked in a salon so you can work as a hairdresser? yes as well as work in an mpesa shop? yes I did not receive proper education but I can comfortably take care of my children even if it means doing menial jobs even if it means washing peoples clothes yes do you think you can still rely on the police if you are battered again? not really but if I am forced to I would prefer my case be handled by a male officer and not women because they really mishandled me the day my face was swollen I had to apologize to get help what message can you give to both women and even men who face violence but still stick to their marriages? Just open up to your partner and ask them to leave if you no longer want to be with them instead of turning violent given a chance what would you change about your life? I would have never gotten into marriage because I have seen death that man would have killed me okay then, thank you Janet

100 thoughts to “They have refused to arrest him because he is a police officer-Janet Mbeca | Tuko TV”

  1. There's no justice for women in kenya.. And police women are the worst I saw a lady being turned away at a certain police station in machakos after domestic violence being turned away by her fellow woman

  2. Pole my dear lakini mi nikipigwa ngumi moja ama kofi naenda nikienda mie mwenywe wazazi wangu hawajawahi nipiga kuguni ya mtu ndio inigeuze mpira nooooooo …..pole my dear haki ya mnyoge hulipwa kwa Mungu

  3. Aki nikiona vile every week wanawake wanafanyiwa hizi vitu sitaman mwanaume kwa life yangu woiiiii single nipoa Sana walaiii my true love only my mama .

  4. Kama wewe si kiwete, bona usitafte kazi yeyote ata ya kufua manguo๐Ÿคท๐Ÿคทmadame wanajidharau eti juu ya mtoto mpaka uharibiwe sura ama uuliwe

  5. Girl, you're soo young, you can't say no job, go hawk, go start a kiosk, do something for your daughter and you. Usitegemee mwanaume.

  6. Na nyie wadada urembo wenu mnaenda potezea kwa hayo maafande nawashangaa. Yaacheni yaoane yenyewe kwa yenyewe takataka kabisa. Na hiyo mijike yao nayo roho zao mbaya kama sura zao. Nda maana hao maaskari wanawaacha wanakuja kwa raia. Huyo millicent or millipede whatever your name is ulaaniwe na kizazi chako

  7. So much thanks Tuco for putting on English translations for me, Sorry for u maama may God heal Ur inner pain that we can't tell so that u get over it and have a new beautiful beginning. Best of luck

  8. Ety haribu nyumba yako tu… huyo alionga huko ilikuwa nioleke nxt yr lakini nimeairisha hadi unknown period sasa ulivumilia juu ya mtoto sahii utamlea ukiwa kiwete bila yeye ๐Ÿ˜ง๐Ÿ˜ง

  9. Yaani Kenya munahitaji mupate kiongozi mkali sana na strong kama Miguna kwani wakenya ni moto wa kuotea mbali huko kuna utumwa na unyanyasaji hiyo nchi bado haijakaa sawa kabisa ni shidaaa Ngai wakenya mna jeuri mbaya na watu sio wastaarabu kabisa uwiiiiii ๐Ÿ™†โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™†โ€โ™€๏ธwananchi wenyewe wabishi, viongozi ndio hao wakorofi na wezi, wauaji na wabinafsi hawadhamini wanyonge kama hawa.

  10. Guyzzz kuna watu got big heart yaani ni shida zangu zitanipiga ama ni mtu ata ni dunda.hadi kunirarua mdomo ?.Aki mimi unaweza pata nilisonga sana stage ya kwanza ni Qatar I hate nonsense

  11. I hope she gets help,this man should not run away with it,it be a lesson,,I had a police bae,weeee,he never became violent to me,bt the curse he used to hurl at people,on the road,at a club,mkikosana matusi nikama chain๐Ÿคฃkushikana,I couldn't stand it,am peaceful person,nikajitoa,nikakataa anioe vile nilipata Mtoto,he was looking for me to finish me..nikahama hou,akaniandikia spy,wahh,I was scared,but I prayed God for protection, miraculously I found myself in US, within 2weeks,wacha Mungu aitwe Mungu,, don't force urself where ur not 100% fitting.

  12. Wacha kugongwa ata kutukanwa or being belittled I can't take them but recent occurrences of domestic violence is discouraging us from relationships may God heal our men ngai

  13. She is just a fraction out of the whole number of women who are going through this kind of ugly situation. May God have mercy . Please ladies run for your life if you notice strange behaviors from your partner.

  14. Kama maisha ya doa ni hii kuvumilia hadi sura inachange wacha nikae tu single na nilee katoi kangu better kwa mwarabu kuliko hii doa ya upuzi

  15. Hii Kenya c ya wanyonge ,,,,bt mungu ako ,,,,,ukiona umechapwa ya kwanza jitoe mapema coz that's the clear indication that he b beating u

  16. Ladies go for training in the gym learn how to fight back. Sorry for what happened to you, I think it will be a great idea you apply for a job in gulf and you can support your children

  17. Janet…thank God ulitoka uko ukiwa mzima….achana na yeye,ukikimbizana na yeye atakuua na mnyonge Hana haki hii Kenya, enda mbali mahali hatawai kuona uanze life….na God will provide everything you need.,..the Bible say the wicked shall never go unpunished..

  18. Mr president on behalf of all respecful men nipatie contract yaku assasinate wanaume kama hawa nitafanya for free usinilipe nitatumua resources zangu

  19. My dear hii kazi ya. Kuvumilia mwanaume is so hard siz. Just forget abt him. Even if you have 2 or 5 children dnt mind dear.

  20. Whether humans follow the law or not!God's laws are perfect! Don't worry my sister just forgive him and forcus on God! He will make a way for you!

  21. Ladies mnasema mmeolewa na hata wazazi wa omuhusband hawaja kanyanga kwenu tujipende jamani usiite ndoa kaa akuna mahari…..

  22. Kenya ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ‘ฎโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ฎโ€โ™‚๏ธ is bad news

  23. The biggest enemy of a woman is another woman….. Shame on those women instead of helping their own they just added insult to injury……..

  24. That's why some police men kill their wives nkt!!!eti askari haezi shikwa kwani yeye ndo nani…ala!!!PAYE yetu ndo kusema hapa…nonsense…

  25. True story!! Huzy yangu alikua na tabia yakunitusi na kunichapa… ile siku alinisho ataniua na ataenda jela juu yangu, I prayed for my life that light, tukadozz, asubuhi I acted as If there was nothing after vile tu alitoka tu ivi, I was running like a mad person kutafuta means zakujitoa kwa hiyo boma. Thank God we r safe me and my kid never saw him again came to learn of his death after walishamzika… its better a divorced daughter than a dead one run run run whenever you see any abnormal signs!!!
    Nihayo tu!!!!!

  26. No one is above the law! It's disgusting and sickening to hear what her fellow women in a place of power said to her! Sadly it could be one of them next time! The days of persevering in marriages is over cos its either this or six feet under! Wake up women!

  27. Please women this thing ya ati kuvumilia kwa ndoa because of watoto please stop. sick mother or dead mother's don't take care of there children

  28. Aki wallah kenia muskil maffi marriage mungu awaonekanie plus nyinyi madada wenye mnakaa home mkingojea kusaidiwa na ma bwana to feed u,try kuna ma kazi kwa waarabu kujeni tuoshe hamam huku
    Team hamam Qatar

  29. Why is she still with the guy???,she needs to live before he kills her!.This excuse abused women use all the time that he begged me ,or called or asked for forgiveness is all bullshit, you cannot change an abusive person! ,get the hell out with your child! Move on!

  30. Ladies , lets all be TEAM KUJIAMINI ๐Ÿ’ช …we have to empower women to love themselves , be independent , and say no to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE . Simple as !!

  31. Sasa constable wa prison na analipwa 10k kwa mwezi๐ŸŒ๐ŸŒ๐ŸŒanaringia nani? Badala a save tupesa awekee bibi yake kakazi nkt๐ŸŒ๐ŸŒ๐ŸŒ๐ŸŒ,prison ni watu wa D- na ndio maana

  32. Only in Kenya where the police are above the law…..hope Matiangi sees this, those women shd b ashamed of themselves, si pia wao wana watoto……plz dont go back, he will kill u next time…..hope she gets justice she deserves……rudi nyumbani na uwe single mum, you can do it…..don't go back to that devil

  33. He could not get away with this in Jamaica.she should throw some well hot
    Oil and him when sleeping .kmt๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช

  34. Kenya police …the poorest idiots and hypocrites in the country
    Walikataa kumshika juu atafutwa.
    So they can't help you ..but give that idiot time ataishi ku regreat

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